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Hi guys, does anyone here experience any form of erectile dysfunction? I have been reading a lot about porn enduced erectile dysfunction lately and feel like I have this, potentially coupled with size insecurity as well. I am a very sexual person and for a long time would browse webcam chat rooms and be sexting with people for long periods of time. I feel like my body has now got used to this and is only stimulated by this kind of voyeuristic type of sexual experience. I don't go on the chat rooms anymore but tinder and sexting have now replaced that. I find I'm quite successful on tinder and it's very easy to get girls in bed or get them to send me pictures of themselves, however this I feel is extremely damaging to me as I find it really difficult to get stimulated enough during actual sexual encounters. I'm only 30 and pretty fit, so I don't think this is an age related thing and I hope it's not a physical problem I have. I kind of feel like my brain just doesn't get aroused enough when I have a physical women in front of me.

Does anyone else get this or anything similar at all?
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I am not sure myself, i have generally not best erections.
I had phases where i go 'no jerking off, no porn' to help myself find motivation to find normal girls i see on the street hot and being horny for them. This works pretty reliable.

Regarding the 'porn = bad for erections' thing, there is this whole 'Nofap' movement, it's pretty big. Also the 'Your Brain on porn' thing. Googling these 2 terms gives vast amount of information.

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There are definitely many posts here from members discussing excessive watching of porn, and the subsequent impact on their sexual experiences. Do a search and you'll find good info.
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That is super common - I found that I developed that same thing. I never watched porn most of my life. When my PE went south I started watching porn instead of having sex. Getting aroused by having an actual person in my bed was really hard after a while. It was easier to lie next to them and beat myself off than have actual sex. I have a few friends in sexual compulsive programs and the way they do it is to lay off the offending behavior for a while - like 6 months to a year - and rewire your brain with healthier ways of having sex and that part is always individual based on their past habits. Since it is not about compulsive sex in your case, just cutting off the texting, tinder etc. would be the most important thing. There is a shit load of research on this on the internet and it is really common. You kind of need to clear a path to self-correct.
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i dont think porn creates ED... i think jerking off to porn does..

I use porn as motivation, learning, educational, and entertainment. I never jerk off to porn. EVER. I only cum if i'm fucking a woman. Make that promise to yourself and you will find yourself getting a whole lot more pussy.

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Yeah, that is probably much more accurate, but I never heard of watching porn and not beating off.
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dude i watch porn almost daily right now because it gives me motivation to hang... the pain from hanging (i'm hanging with heavy weights) is sometimes quite intense.. so porn helps numb the pain a bit. and yea i never cum to porn.. i do sometimes edge to it though... edging is super great for the dick.
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Yeah I think this all comes down to my insecurities in my own size. I would deliberately watch porn of guys fucking girls with massive cocks because it turned me on thinking what it must be like. Sometimes I would stay up for hours edging and not cumming because it felt like an addictive behaviour watching one video after another. I was wondering if anyone else did things similar and how their PE might have made this better or worse? I find it difficult to get aroused now because my brain is wired to being turned on by guys with big cocks fucking girls and the girls reactions. When I am having sex I don't get the same kind of feeling as I know that my girth is just not that great despite having a decent length. What's weird is that I still have a crazy high sex drive and I am constantly pursuing girls, sexting with them. All of which I think is extremely damaging to my brain and its ability to be turned on and so when it comes to the deed my penis just doesn't get that hard. I think it might be because I am soo sexual that I have a really high threshold for what turns me on. I also don't find it difficult to get girls in to bed and so maybe there is an element of it not being exciting enough.
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I really dont get how guys think girls just love fucking massive cock... all you have to do is watch the porn. The amateur porn that is. If a dude has a huge dick he is only fitting in 2 inches and the other 8 inches are hanging out of her because he is too big.. why would this make any guy with a normal dick feel insecure? I've had alot of friends with huge dicks and they all get rejected by women who dont want their cocks in them. sure when they meet a girl with a huge vagina they probably fill them up like they want and need. but really its not the norm. 

So if you come across a girl with a huge vagina and girls whom only get satisfied with huge cock.. she is the oddball not you. fyi my girl is a huge vagina bitch.. so i'm fighting the battle right there with you all. lol

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I really dont get how guys think girls just love fucking massive cock... all you have to do is watch the porn. The amateur porn that is. If a dude has a huge dick he is only fitting in 2 inches and the other 8 inches are hanging out of her because he is too big.. why would this make any guy with a normal dick feel insecure? I've had alot of friends with huge dicks and they all get rejected by women who dont want their cocks in them. sure when they meet a girl with a huge vagina they probably fill them up like they want and need. but really its not the norm. 

So if you come across a girl with a huge vagina and girls whom only get satisfied with huge cock.. she is the oddball not you. fyi my girl is a huge vagina bitch.. so i'm fighting the battle right there with you all. lol


I dont agree with you. Here in nyc girls are especially like that they want 8 or 9 being the smallest, 10 and up if they can find it. Its much worse if your black like me so i can understand feeling insecure when you have size queens everywhere you look.
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Seriously ? 8 and 9 being the smallest abd they want 10 + ??? Do they want or do they think they want ..? I mean if this is really there exoectation i can t imagine how frustrated they must all be all the time ..
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Seriously ? 8 and 9 being the smallest abd they want 10 + ??? Do they want or do they think they want ..? I mean if this is really there exoectation i can t imagine how frustrated they must all be all the time ..


Its what they want. I've had several girl leave me and go to other guy because of there size. My wifes best friend has had 8, 8.5, 9.5 and she still wants bigger. Girls like her cant be satisfied.
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Its what they want. I've had several girl leave me and go to other guy because of there size. My wifes best friend has had 8, 8.5, 9.5 and she still wants bigger. Girls like her cant be satisfied.

I think extrem size-queens like this are very very very rare. Made new thread: "How big Penisses are + how big Women like them to be" http://phalloboards.websitetoolbox.com/post/how-big-penisses-are-how-big-women-like-them-to-be-8572099

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Wow .. that s only a category of girls right ? Because i don t see how you can compete if you are not a porn actor basically .. .. i will just get rich and fuck high class prostitutes then ..
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