lakingsfan35
Well, I hate to say this but I am going to. After all these years I know I have a good woman. She has been telling me for years how I am perfect size for her and how she loves my willy as it is.

I once again showed her pics of the Dr. Morales thread of the guys penis especially on that post. She said no I like my willy the way it is. Two days later I have her a full body massage. During the massage I excused myself into the bathroom. I put on the sleeve and wahed my hands.

I came back out and 10 minutes later, I gave her a 20 minute long hard ride.
Her exact comments were "My God baby I can't stop cumming" "you feel so damn good!" " I wish sex felt this good everytime"

When we were done I simply said this is why it was so damn good, showed her my pecker with the sleeve on it and walked away into our bathroom. When I came back into the room with a wet towel for her to clean up with like I always do, she had the tenacity to say she likes my willy without the sleeve.

Bullshit I said, I just watched your eyes roll back into your head for 15 to 20 minutes as you had 5 or 6 body quivering, mind shattering orgasms. So we layed close to each other, and as I was running my fingers thru her hair, she pulled me close and wispered into my ear how much she loved me and how she is feeling a bit sore and that while yes the sex was great and fun but not for every time, and she prefers my natural woody.

So when she wasn't home, I rubbed one to a full woody put the sleeve on and measured with 100% erection. I measured 5.85" at circ scar. Midshaft is 6.25" (where the sleeve starts) and the base was full 7.0" The sleeve was cut down to 3" long and it's basically only on from the base my penis to mid shaft.


Seeing how she reacts I may make a stealth 1 day trip to Mexico for 1 round only and try to get to 6.25 to 6.5 in one round. Or I can buy another 4 or 5,keep them on hand and save thousands of dollars.

The truth I've got a great woman that loves me,

The sad truth is I feel as if I'm inadequate compared to 6.5 to 7.0 because every time I wear it it rocks her world........my thought process tells me she can handle the 7" like a champ and her vag will adjust to the constant new girth and she won't always be sore.
I do know after I get aggressive with 4 fingers she also complains about being sore, but she comes real hard. Ive been doing that for decades. Maybe that's why she says she prefers my natural size. She orgasms with my natural size, its just rocking her world with 4 fingers or the sleeve. I will say we use a vib on her clit every time, literally every time for 20 years


So here's the big question, should I keep surprising her by only using this occasionally or get 1 round and rock her world every time? I know pmma outcome possibly deform my penis into frankendick, I also know she may not like the going behind her back, I'm sure she would eventually forgive me.......and what if I get to 6.25 to 6.50 and she is sore every time?? What then?

You guys with the 6.5 to 7.0 girth are your ladies sore after every time? Has your sex frequency gone down? I get laid alot for a married guy in a relationship for 20 years and I DON'T want a reduction of sex for a bit of girth.......
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Gg82
I would only focus on having hard steel erections with a natural 5.85” girth, wouldn’t risk complications.
And i would keep the sleeves for special occasions to enable more fun; if she said she was sore, i’m not sure she’s up for huge girth every time.

Just my 2 cents.
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Lexus27
@lakingsfan35. Go for it dude because if not, those words will be burning in the back of your mind knowing what she said and how it felt for her during sex.
Hey one life to live and if she loves you the way you say she does, then she will support your decision.. Bottom line is girth will always be king and remember sex can become sore even with a smaller penis.. You got my support bro, even if we've had disagreements in the past about this very same topic or similar.
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Southdub
A plastic sleeve is clearly fake and not you but plastic injected into your cock is you.... ? either way the reality is they are both not you and fake.

Seems easier sticking to the plastic sleeve option to add girth for sex considering you motives are for the bedroom only?
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Jpjordan
My view is that if you do this you have to do it for yourself, try not to think about her. You may think that you are going down this path for another, but in the end it is for ultimately for you, for many countless or few reasons that only you know. If your partner likes your member after, then that’s great. If your partner hates your member after, then that’s on you, not her. If your member gets permanently deformed 1 or 5 years after, that’s all on you with the consequences, which you should accept now. Look inward — Just my 2c. In the meantime (until you decide or even after) bad dragon sheaths are lots of fun on occasion. [wink]
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lakingsfan35
@lexus I've got no beef with ya, we had exactly that a disagreement and that was way long ago in the past . I'm just so on the fence with this. It's so easy to slip on that 3 inch long open ended silicone sleeve and add 1.25 inches of temporary girth. I get full sensation on me as 1/2 of my Johnson is exposed.
I don't ever see myself doing any other lady so it's not like I'm in the same boat as some of the other members here. But your right it is in the back from my mind. But really pmma is the same thing in a sense, its just injected inside instead of a sleeve on the outside.

It really is only for sexual gratification of my life long lady. I don't need to showboat a big package at the gym. I'm not dating or swinging... so southdub I get ya. Gonna have to look at dragon sheath now lol..

I guess I will have to ponder for a clear answer from inside.

Still would like to hear from the " bigger" guys if frequency went down.. I get laid 5 to 8 times a month and I dont think that's too shabby for a guy that has been with the same gal since 93, I'd hate to see that go down to 2 or 3 times cause she is sore.....
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chester
Gg82 wrote:
I would only focus on having hard steel erections with a natural 5.85” girth, wouldn’t risk complications.
And i would keep the sleeves for special occasions to enable more fun; if she said she was sore, i’m not sure she’s up for huge girth every time.

Just my 2 cents.

Agreed.
CURRENT: 6.5" EL x 5.5" EG
GOAL: 7" EL x 6" EG
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Lexus27
I understand the sleeve for girth but wouldn't you like to just be ready already at that girth? It saves the hassle of constantly getting a erection just to put it on. The sad truth as you say she has already felt how that extra girth feels
and going back to your regular size will feel differently for you and her regardless if it's mentally or physically. I say this off of experience because every since I've pumped from the beginning there was no going back because my fiancee enjoyed it. I tried my regular girth but the reaction was completely different and she cums about 10× compared to only twice with my regular unit. You should have never put it on bro. I think whatever you decide your wife will love you regardless and won't leave. Oh and the difference between pmma and a sleeve is one you actually get to walk around with permanently and the other is temporary. If you pay for it and it's permanent,then it's yours to go home with lol. Looking forward to hear your decision in the future. Take it easy.
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Mustang2020
Jpjordan wrote:
My view is that if you do this you have to do it for yourself, try not to think about her. You may think that you are going down this path for another, but in the end it is for ultimately for you, for many countless or few reasons that only you know. If your partner likes your member after, then that’s great. If your partner hates your member after, then that’s on you, not her. If your member gets permanently deformed 1 or 5 years after, that’s all on you with the consequences, which you should accept now. Look inward — Just my 2c. In the meantime (until you decide or even after) bad dragon sheaths are lots of fun on occasion. [wink]


THIS!!!!
Live Long and F*** Long 😉

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chester
Lakings, there's nothing sad about your situation. Your unit is like a balanced , healthy and delicious meal for your wife. The sleeve is like Grandma's special lasagna. Your wife likes both but you can't be having Grandma's special lasagna every single night. Sounds to me like she's more than happy having your delicious, healthy meals every night, and once in a while having Grandma's lasagna. That sounds to me your actual situation. Nothing sad about that.
CURRENT: 6.5" EL x 5.5" EG
GOAL: 7" EL x 6" EG
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biggy
Lakiingsfan35, you are over a standard deviation bigger than the norm. Yet your wife takes it no problem. Shouldn't that just tell you that over time your wife's vagina has just become used to accommodating such a large girth? Wouldn't the exact same thing happen over time if you get it enlarged? 

When I first had sex with my GF after PMMA, she said it felt huge and was uncomfortable. These days she takes it no problem. I'm only 5.4" girth. 

Ultimately, no matter how big your girth is, over time female partners will start to accommodate it more easily. 




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rcjones75
Couldnt you do HA for a temp and see if she if she likes it not then make your decision together?
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Lexus27
Funny how we have guys saying don't do it meanwhile their busy either chasing after a big penis or already have had theirs done. Now that's the sad truth. I'm sure he will come to a decision soon and not accept advice from confused ppl
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biggy
Lexus27 wrote:
Funny how we have guys saying don't do it meanwhile their busy either chasing after a big penis or already have had theirs done. Now that's the sad truth. I'm sure he will come to a decision soon and not accept advice from confused ppl


If he was 3.5" girth and single because of it, then I'm sure many would have a different point of view. But advising a happily married man, with an already very big penis, to risk an enlargement, doesn't seem right to me.


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Lexus27
@biggy I'm advising him to do what he feels is best. All I'm really saying is that i support whatever decision he makes. Now as far as already being big already, when has that stop other guys from doing it even though they had a average penis already? We are only here for support and to advise guys to stay away from the bad doctors. Other than that this is a penis enlargement forum and there is happily married men who have had different procedures done. Just FYI
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