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hoddle10

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Check out this thread and poll, where women discuss dildo girth and what they consider their upper limits:

http://www.edenfantasys.com/sex-forum/sex-toys/dildos/girth-how-big-is-too-big/

I think this has more value than most size based discussions as with dildos they actually know the sizes and therefore aren't guessing and we know women are terrible at that.

I don't think the results really tell us that those reporting better sex with huge girths are wrong. I think it more likely just demonstrates how mental stimulation is the key to sexual pleasure. I think the fact that men are so often convinced that sex is better for a woman when they have a large girth suggests that if a man is extremely turned on and confident it will be better for the woman.

I'm absolutely, 100% convinced I'd be much better in bed with a 6" girth than with a 5.5" girth, despite the fact, this and virtually every other credible source I've encountered suggests 5.5" is closer to what more women would prefer size wise. In fact I think I'd be better with 6.25". No matter how hard I try to be rational about this subject I'm simply unable to be and as a result my insecurities are so great that I'd  be worried that a 5.5" girth wouldn't be enough. So I wouldn't be able to relax and get turned on. Women can sense these things and things would become awkward. Yet the mere thought of whipping out a 6.25" girth turns me on and I'm sure I could screw the hell out of most women with it. Despite the fact it would be less comfortable for them, I think as a result of my extra confidence they'd have a much better time.  
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It works for me.
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Those comments for the poll make me more comfortable with my decision to not get a full round 2.  Thanks...I needed to read that right now.  But I also totally understand your point about the added confidence that comes with being larger (or at least the thought of it).
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It's crazy that confidence comes from the thought of having a size that seems less than ideal for many women. It just shows how stupidly impressionable I and others are, even though we are aware of irrational it is! It really is a kind of mental illness. It's a bit like anorexia. Some of them must know looking really skinny is unattractive.
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Interesting poll, and this comes from women who are much more comfortable about their sexuality and much more in tune with achieving pleasure... and from prior readings, I still see 5.5" coming up quite frequently as the upper limit for most women... and that even the average girth is plenty good.  Great find!


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Interesting poll, and this comes from women who are much more comfortable about their sexuality and much more in tune with achieving pleasure... and from prior readings, I still see 5.5" coming up quite frequently as the upper limit for most women... and that even the average girth is plenty good.  Great find!



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After looking at the poll and then reading all the comments, I'm now more convinced than ever that PMMA is a good idea for me:

1% of women voted for a size equal to my girth... 1%!


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el6eg4,

I agree:  that hurts!

Having lived almost all my life at 4" girth, thinking all was fine and assuming my insecurity was due to guys heckling me, little did I realize how it affects sex for women. I am fairly sure that you will be amazed at how their reaction is different. You move from "Oh, I really like him, so it must be good..." to an entirely different range of moans and groans and girls becoming totally addicted to you.

One recently told me that she really likes the guy attached to my awesome unit. The next day another woman referred to it as the 8th wonder of the world. And this is with only 5" length. No such comments at 4" girth, by no fault of much greater efforts. Incredibly, it isn't all about friction or technique, but possibly more about pressure applied from the inside and the distance of dilation at each insertion. Doing this requires having diameter.

So, it is rather an unjust situation that women are so configured that they need a certain amount of girth to be satisfied physically and sexually and even to some degree romantically. Of course girth won't dictate a woman's feelings, but it sure helps them get carried away. One was in love with me back in the day, but at 4" girth I was always more in love with her while she dominated the relationship. Now it's the other way around. Can you guess why? Shame but it is something which impacts their psyche, but not separately: they perceive us differently. Bizarre.

Regarding this very interesting poll, I venture to say that it may be possible that the largest proportion of women responding to 5.5 inches were those who never had kids, and those wishing for larger yet are those who got stretched. In example, one of my girlfriends never had a child pass through there, and she sort of complains that I'm if anything too large. Though she still is hooked. So it seems that if one is at around 4" in girth, it is probably the most bang for the buck expenditure one could make.

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Women can take and enjoy a larger girth than most men would like to think.  That said, it's not necessary for their enjoyment.  Anything that applies adequate pressure/friction to the first four inches of the inner walls of the vagina and fills them up is plenty.  Stamina and a strong connection to your partner has a greater influence than an extra half inch of girth any day!
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Thanks HC, I missed your experienced reply and as usual its well worth the read.

I'm keen to see what difference it makes, I've spoken on this forum before about a buddy of mine that has a harem of women addicted to his huge cock despite him being a total asshole.

Miracle, there is no doubting relationship quality is far more important to sexual satisfaction than penis size but I disagree that applies to casual encounters. I think when fucking a woman you barely know for the first time, a bigger cock leaves a better impression... I'll be in a position to validate that theory firsthand soon 

You've been lucky enough to never have a small dick, smaller yes, but not small... so perhaps in terms of big to bigger, 1/2 inch is less impactful than it is for a penis transitioning from small to above average.
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Hi el6eg4+++

Well, first let me say you'll have no issues with length, so go for more if you really want to but unless it is to visually impress them you needn't worry. I am short, ranging between 5" and 5.5" on a good day. However the ladies seem to invariably tell me the exact same words in any language: YOU WERE MADE FOR ME. Then they timidly admit that they love my unit, to which I have somehow taken the backstage. This is with a fairly short unit most guys would say in not long enough.

I think it might help some women to let loose, when your overall proportions (girth by length) is not totally huge. Size Queens have a fetish for LARGE and are an exception. Total volume might psychologically overwhelm whom who have issues with male power. And quite a lot of them do. So might be an advantage not having much length in their perception, so as not to carry an only too visible risk of hurting their cervix! Ladies can then let loose and go wild riding away without any tension or fear of pain. The only girl I know who loves it as long as possible has a tilted cervix and never got it knocked.

From my experience, I believe that moving upwards even half an inch in girth from 4 inches will make a considerable difference. Had I not lost some girth after 10 months (possibly due to winter in a cold climate) it was plenty and hit my sweet spot.. Huh, I mean THEIR G-spot. 

Starting at 4" girth one session with 20cc of 10% PMMA may not be enough right away to have them on their knees, like addicts, but you will uncomfortably start to notice the arrival of moans and groans you never heard before. It is satisfying because who doesn't like to have such power to please? But also it is a bit upsetting as you discover what you have been missing, and them too... no fault of your own, as nothing could be done about it. 

Two of my girlfriends know I've done something to change. How couldn't they? But they don't outright say it. One pretends she doesn't notice and adds that now she's ashamed to admit she loves it (versus loving me)), the other says I have a "designer dick". Over the years  something she never said before but it is a tribute to Dr C, the very first so named Dick Designer registered in a woman's mind under that name.

Woman noticed nothing artificial about my unit, only paying attention to better sensations after my first PMMA session. Somehow sex got really good for them, for a mysterious reason. What was up? No clue !  Ater years of knowing me thin, one said that it somehow felt "really thick". Mind you, this is with a half inch gain starting at 4" original size. It is all relative and reaching a sweet spot you had missed makes quite a difference. I shrugged it off and referred to the DHT cream I had rubbed on allegedly to "stimulate natural growth". She noted that it sure worked incredibly well.

When more significant girth comes with later sessions, they stop caring whether you're doing something, and if they found out they'd probably pin a medal on your chest and say a bit Thank You! Only girls who haven't tried it before may have a negative prejudice. I'll wager that even girls who think plastic surgery in stupid and unacceptable would make an exception for girth increases. Some might even find you popular to try out?

Also, to conclude, I think that to a woman penis size in a combination of length and girth, they want a certain weight of organ pressing into them, and it seems likely that they will prefer it when it is wide enough rather than delivering it all in length. It is the general feeling of substance inside them which they find stimulating, as they can also contract and ride it at will. I cannot attest to how length change figures into the mix, possibly a member who stretched from 6" to 7" or more can tell us? This would also depend on their original girth too.

After my fourth session next week, I plan on stretching for a year to gain whatever I can. Then will a fill up at the base it will be interesting to see whether a bit more length makes a difference even when the girth is spot on.

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Nice description HC
How does girth impact anal, for those of you who practice ? My GF is ok with the idea of PMMA except that she thinks it will hurt there. If it hurts, she said she wont do it no more... I know too much lube is almost enough, but I would not want to lose that.
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I still feel women are far more aware of what other's think about them and will go for the medium girth because their man is either standing right there or they feel somehow that they have a huge vagina if they choose the biggest girth. Just my opinion but come from decades around women. 
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I am inclined to somewhat agree with you Cya@8.  Women are more capable of adapting to a larger size than we'd like to think.  I do believe that after a certain girth, additional size does not provide additional stimulation (echoing the experiences of Sizemic).

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I can only speak for myself but have found at my current dimensions, anal is out of the question.  The typical remark is, "If you let me shove something the same size as your cock up your ass, I'm all yours."

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Nice description HC How does girth impact anal, for those of you who practice ? My GF is ok with the idea of PMMA except that she thinks it will hurt there. If it hurts, she said she wont do it no more... I know too much lube is almost enough, but I would not want to lose that.


I think if one is to increase girth by 0.25"-0.45", then Anal with the same lady who has had it many times before is possible with initial minor adjustments by her.

For me, I had anal sex with only one lady in quite a few ladies AFTER my PMMA. I went from about 5" girth to over 7" so my chances of having anal sex with a lady are limited to none. Although for me I typically choose young, with no kids and small framed women so their vaginas are typically tight and I am OK with no anal with them.
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