FarmerJohn, I'm familiar with paranoid schizophrenia. My brother has it. He appears completely normal, and can pass for a perfectly normal person, except when he starts talking. He's a cumpulsive liar, which I believe is something that "soothes" his condition, as it gives him a sense of control over his interaction with others. Many of the behaviors you described in your last post resemble that of my brother. Simply put, they're not normal. The main difference I believe, is that you seem to recognize this. This is important. Self-awareness is key, as you could be oblivious to behavior that repels others. However, this is excessively difficult given your condition. The key to getting with *any* woman is making her comfortable. When she's comfortable she can laugh, she can smile, which makes her think about you making her laugh and smile in her bed. However, to make someone comfortable, you have to first be very comfortable with yourself. This is incredibly difficult for someone with your condition. I suppose if you're a really good liar, you could lie your way into making others comfortable around you. You probably already do some of this already, which can help with your confidence in social situations. My best advice to you is to start doing healthier things that improve your confidence, such as conditioning your body (exercising with weights, running, etc), improving your mind (reading, learning new languages), enhancing your artistic side (painting, drawing, sculpting, etc). Consistency is usually a big problem for those with paranoid schizophrenia. You have to be consistent. Develop a routine and get into a habit of consistently engaging in one, or several, of the above things.
Now I'm going to share something with you that may sound counterintuitive, but it is important for you to understand. While women can be exceptionally cruel, and you should never put them on a pedestal, you must always respect them. A woman's warmth and creative power brought you into this world, you must always treat them with respect and dignity. You need to release any anger you're harboring towards them, and make peace with any maladies they have inflicted on you. This may take time and a lot of understanding, but it's very important for you to accomplish this. A woman can tell when a man is harboring anger for them, and this is highly repelling. Many of us here have been victims of a woman's cruelty (myself included), however, we must always develop ways to find forgiveness and understanding, so we can move on healthier and stronger than before.
FarmerJohn, I won't lie to you; it's going to be a heck of alot more difficult for you to be a true ladies man, but it's definitely possible. In fact, done properly, you may find this pursuit quite healthy, constructive and therapeutic.