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xavi69
Smalltobig wrote:
The swelling is what worries me ... even after 11 days it remains almost the same . can any one please tell me how long it’s gonna take ? 


Your unit is looking good!
Please keep us posted with images and how you recover, Im looking foward for FFT with PRP on September.
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Fattransferornot
You have to wait and avoid sex if you can, masturbate gentle and not too much time.

I wouldn't concern about ED for now, maybe 50% psychological 50% ,your body is asking time to heal, vascularizate fat.

You could use castor oil and alcohol to improve blood flow in the area, I wouldn't buy cialis until second or third month.
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Smalltobig
Thanks fton,

I am slowly working on the psychological part . and accepting the fact that I get only 30-40% erection for the time being ,I and my wife tried sex couple of times ( after the effect of Cialis ) . Both had a great experience .she is very excited about the new size but cautioned me that anything more than this would be painful for her and she doesn’t want . I just measured immediately and it was showing 5.6”. Anyway I would take your advice and free up my mind staying away from sex for sometime . about the castor oil , do I just need to apply on it or need to  massage with that ? 

I am uploading some pics in flaccid . Swelling has reduced a lot . Thanks to hoddle , I read his suggestion in some previous posts and used the cohesive bandage to keep it pressed .There is some swelling still left .

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hoddle10
It's looking good. 
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Skeptical One
I agree with Hoddle regarding the stress & erections. I have no shortage of libido or functionality, but within the first few days of healing from a procedure, my unit had no desire to be bothered lol. Some people manage to get full-on erections immediately post-op, I never understood that lol.

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I agree with Hoddle regarding the stress & erections. I have no shortage of libido or functionality, but within the first few days of healing from a procedure, my unit had no desire to be bothered lol. Some people manage to get full-on erections immediately post-op, I never understood that lol.

Totally agree. I specifically notice this with nocturnal erections, which are completely autonomic. After a procedure like this, or an injury/stress from manual PE, I notice that nocturnal become absent, and return when the body deems they're ready to be resumed.
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Fattransferornot
How does it feel? Fat attachs to shaft or it feels loose? Its Iike extra skin or its harder?
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Smalltobig
Feel is not great . But I was prepared for it . At some places you can feel some hard chunks of fat when you press and try to feel it .Not a big issue though  . Unless I get a proper erection , which is the basic function of a dick  ,there is no point of even discussing any good thing about it . Going to meet the doc next week . It was scheduled for a top/touch up . Now I will just go for a review and let me see what he says . Will update .
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Fattransferornot
Did you go?

Do you think feel will improve? If a girl look at your unit do you think she will notice it's not natural?

Thanks
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Smalltobig
Yes I went but decided not to do a top up . I will wait until my erections to be back to normal before I decide on anymore injections  . He said this surgery can not give ED and suggested to try Cialis 5  mg for a month and see . I went and met a urologist before start taking it . He said , the needle might have injured the corpora muscles and it’s possible . he suggested me to give it sometime or try Cialis 5mg for a month . I tried taking it for 4 days but it was giving me headaches and sick feeling . So stopped it .. the erection quality has improved slightly now . The feelings are getting back to normal . From the looks , it’s hard to say it’s not natural . I would have gained some .5 inch .I would give it one more month and see how it looks and feels . one major positive is the way it looks in flaccid . Gives you confidence in case you have to remove your pants anywhere ..so I would give my final verdict probably after a month ..
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Smalltobig
Let me give an update :

current status : My erections are finally back to normal and I have started enjoying sex without any stress like the old times .It took more than two months to overcome the state of weak erections or sometimes complete lack of erections. Its less firm when I touch/press it but erection is proper 90 degree erections.It won’t give the same old rock-hard feeling when I touch it because of the fat . But that’s perfectly fine with me as I would have retained some .3 inch in erect girth which though sounds very less , visually I have stopped hating the looks of my penis.No lumps spotted yet. There is some loose skin under the glans where I had swelling before. But overall I am happy to be back to my normalsex life. I measure 5 in EG today and penetration part of sex is a bit more enjoyable( it was 4.7 inch before)

2 months post-surgery : The most stressfull and traumatic 2 months. There were days I used to wonder “what have I done to my dick !”, There were days I deeply regretted my decision . There were days I thought I might slip into depression. But I somehow managed that phase. I still believe my ED was caused by the procedure than psychological. Either due to too much fat suddenly got introduced in my penis and or the needle hurt something somehwere inside and the body was taking time to heal . Anyway, these 2 months helped me learn a lot. First the ideal size of my penis for me and my wife. As I mentioned, we used to try doing sex even with my semi erection (whenever I get it). After some reabsorbtion and the time I measured 5.6 inch (semi erect), though initially my wife said she enjoyed the size, later she admitted, she would prefer a little lesser thickness for frequent and prolonged sex as she got sore feeling and at times felt painful as I went on. As my sensitivity was less that time I had to go on for long for me to climax. As an experiment to gauge what would be the ideal thickness for her, one day while we both were on a vegetable shopping, I picked a cucumber, a thin one, and asked would you pick this in case you have to use it for yourself? She said , no that’s thin . Then out of the lot she picked a thick cucumber and said this would be perfect for me. So when I came home, I secretly measured the thickness of that cucumber and found out that it measured 5.25 inch . I felt happy about it as the ask wasn’t too much 😀
A couple of weeks later my thickness had dropped to 5.2 inch. She said , I never missed bigger penis in our sex life, but if you ask me if I have to choose a size, this is the thickness I would go for. So that was my learning curve 😜and from that point onwards I stopped longing for anything more than 5.2 inch. I really wanted that clarity in our life as we both didn’t have an experience what it is to be to fuck with a bigger dick. I was also confused and it used to bother me while we watch porn together and when she makes comment like it’s really big dick, it’s huge, It looks small ( even for a decent thick penis) etc. That would put me down thinking whether she doesn't like my penis. But I should have realized those are her comments on the porn and the aesthetics of it. Not that she would prefer that dick over mine. Morevoer now she also knows bigger penis are good to watch in professional porn movies not in real life (for her at least). Now I can watch porn peacefully with her without worrying about the sizes shown in it😂 Other big learning during this time was, when I started Introspecting our 15 years of marriage, we have had sex almost 4-5 days in a week through out. We enjoyed having sex to the extent that we both hates her periods approaching every month .Some days longer and some days quicker. The enthusiasm has been intact for these many years for both of us .I started thinking, If she was unhappy with the size of my penis, how can she sustain the interest for so many years. If it wasn’t giving her pleasure how her interest was never subsided in these 15 years. We both never did sex outside our marriage. We keep experimenting and keep it exciting with our own newer ideas and enhancers like weed, small quantity of drinks, porn etc. It was fun. With weed, we both enjoy each other’s body on a different level. To make it short, I learned a fact that, size of my penis was never a downer for her. One cannot fake interest for so many years on a daily basis. It was just my greed ( more influenced by porn ) to heighten my pleasure I went for this procedure and and she never stopped me. She said , if that’s something you want to do, I have no issues. But study it well and proceed. She trusts me on that. During these stressful 2 months , seeing me so down, she even asked me once, “ what made you do it even if there was no risk involved ? “ That question itself was a realization for me that, she never wanted me to do anything of that sort. For her , she was attracted to me as a person, as a full pakage. The mental connect and the way we do sex all comes on top. Dick size would come last in the list. But we know . Most of us do it to satisfy ourselves .

Prior to the procedure: The thought of increasing the girth with a surgery struck me in 2012. That time, my wife had just delivered our second child. May be due to the two deliveries, sometimes, when she is really wet and in certain positions I started feeling it a bit loose while penetrating. This was a spark and the porn aggravated my feeling about my penis later. I started exploring viable options for me and kind of decided on alloderm . Spoke to the doctor and sounded everything very promising . Luckily I stumbled on this forum and realized PE surgeries are not straightforward like the doctors offers it to be and became aware of the risks involved. But I was obsessed on doing something about it and kind of decided on FFT procedure as that was the only level of risk I wanted to take that time. But later my better sense prevailed and I asked myself what if it screws up my penis. Let me delay it for some more years and let me enjoy the sex life until then so that even if something goes wrong I didn’t miss much sex in life. So I delayed it for 7 years, kept checking for any safer/better advancements in this area in the forum and finally decided to take the plunge at the age of 43. By this time I had come to a breaking point in my worry about the penis. I should stress on the point that, it was still more because of the porn than anything with actual sexual pleasure. In any amateur porn clips, the first thing I would check on was the guys penis size. And every time it saddens me that every dick I see is thicker than mine. I started hating the looks of my penis. This is the times we get into very untrue thoughts. My self esteem started getting deeply affected. In the gym when I see a guy walking towards my eyes would immediately look down at his bulge and would start feeling bad. By this time I was sure that there is no GOD because he can't be so unfair to some people. It’s just a matter of 0.5 - 1 inch . How can he miss that point 😂I even stopped showing my penis to my wife in flaccid state whereas we were two people take shower almost every day together. Then I decided this is it. Let me regret doing the procedure now than regretting my thin penis whole my life. I read so many places about the issues about quality of the erections after the procedure. I thought all my life , I had rock-hard erections still I hated the looks of it. Now I will trade a bit of firmness for some extra thickness .That’s how I went for this.


Future: I won't seek any other methods or fillers anymore in my life now. I would wait for another month and decide on a top-up with small quanity to see if I can reach that 5.2 inch mark or else I will just move on in life...


A long read. but might be useful to someone at least as this forum has been helpful to me. Thanks to SkepticalOne for creating such a platform. It has saved me from going under the knife for Alloderm and Hoddle, your posts/comments on fft was particulary comforting .Your advice not to do a top-up until my erections are back to normal helped me take the right call the time I went to see Dr.Roberto last month.
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Smalltobig
Update : I went for a top-up 4 days back . The experience is a lot different from the first time . The procedure was quick with local anesthesia. and there was no swelling immediately after the injection like the first time ( first time was horrible swelling ) . But I didn’t heed to doc’s advice to have sex only after 3-5 days . I had sex in the same night which went a little long and it was swollen the next day but went down and becoming normal by now .May be I got excited seeing that I could get an erection immediately .This time he injected only approx 22ml . Erect girth is around 5.6 now .I know it would go down . Would be happy if settles around 5.25 inch. attaching some pics DF0A1133-0E81-413C-9177-BFBCF7179E74.jpeg I 08BE1A66-87E3-45E5-AB98-255816D1FC39.jpeg 29059E22-A080-4CB9-9D44-0143B55DEA8A.jpeg    
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